Advice | How To Find Your True Self

Finding yourself is a quality that is a necessity to me. I was reading an article by a Blogger from 'Fashion Explorer' and while I was reading her article on 'Happiness From Within' it got me thinking. What actually does make me happy?

It is important in life to be happy, not because you have to, because you want to be happy. For instance, when people laugh, do you laugh because they laugh or because you actually find that subject somewhat funny? Think about it...It's the same with buying something and you ask for someones opinion and you have truly fallen for this piece, then the person you have asked for an opinion puts a negative on it. Would you still buy it, or would you put it back because of someones opinion? I certainly wouldn't! If buying that gorgeous dress that someone else hates makes you happy, blooming well do it!

Say if you were on a date or meeting a new friend and they asked about your best qualities and about ourselves, would you feel like you've been put on the spot because you weren't sure what your best qualities were or would you talk away about yourself and ask them what there's are, as well as be confident? It's definitely a question you should ask yourself if you feel you really need to find your true self.

I've noticed some of us take notice and focus on the way others act and behave with different people and situations. This is because we judge ourselves too much and focus on other people's qualities and lifestyles rather than our own. This is where people sink into this society and seek approval of others just to be ourselves and whether we are allowed to be happy or not. This is not how it should be! We should strive for success and happiness, if you hit a wall, think how you can climb over it.

The way you feel about yourself is so important. It can affect the way you think and feel about things too! The relationship you have with yourself is so paramount that it is a necessity that you accept and embrace who you are. What I'm trying to say is, love yourself and every good or bad quality you have about yourself and every good or bad quality you have about yourself and live the best happy life you can possible!

*Top - Zaful | Shorts - H&M (similar) | Shoes - Hidden Fashion

How cute is this top though! Can summer just come back please as I'm not ready yet...even though I absolutely LOVE autumn season! But I could so make this dress come into autumn by adding a black tee underneath and some jeans with a coat for definite!

Thanks for reading and find who you really our you beautiful lot!

*Items marked with an asterisk(*) have been kindly gifted for reviewing purposes. All opinions are my own and honest. Please refer to my disclaimer for more information.*

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