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Monday 19 June 2017

Advice | Don't Be Like Everyone Else

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What is it with how people judge others? Why is it your friends with someone you actually dislike? Why do we punish ourselves for something we regret doing? All the questions we ask ourselves...Why do we do it? Well you know what? I'm here to say, I really couldn't give a toss about people judging me for who I am, what I do, what I love to do, the way I am, my likes and dislikes. I've come to that point where I want to live my life how I want to.

First off, I've been inspired by Sarah Knight with the 'Life Changing Magic Of Not Giving A F*ck' book. There's so many things it's made me think about in life that I think I care about, when actually I really don't! Whether that be going on a night out I really don't want to waste my money on to only make myself ill the next day.

Another thing how a lot of us bloggers seem to be obsessed with, a theme, covered in rose gold and marble pieces, or designer home ware, or even designer fashion. As much as I love all this stuff, I'm not that type of blogger, I'm a strong opinionated lady, who loves to explore the world to even a different part of my own city, venture into the countryside and just breathe! We get swallowed up into social media and all it's new stuff that comes out that everyone seems to have, but I do not let myself fall into that advertising trap. Money doesn't come around very easily, some people are in better positions than others.

My point is through this post is, you do you, whether that's taking a break, doing something creative, or what YOU like to do, no matter what people may think, say or what ever face they pull at you. They cannot stop you from doing what you want. Don't waste your time with people that don't let you strive to achieve in life and don't waste time doing things that you don't want to do, unless it's very important of course. Also, don't feel pressured to follow the crowd either. I've done this once or twice, but I always prefer to go my own way and decide what I want in my personal style, as I hate to have things that everyone else has.

It's amazing what you think about when you're on the train home. I just wanted to express these everyday feelings and thought that I know a lot of people have, especially caring about what other people think - who cares! I certainly don't. I want to live my life to the fullest, and no one will stop me or get in the way of that!

Thanks for reading and never stop doing what you love!


  1. I want that book so bad! I'm hoping it can teach me to, well, not give a fuck aha!
    Loved this post 💛

    1. Definitely get it! They're cheap on eBay! Thank you x

  2. I really want to read this book, although I'm pretty good at not giving a f*** already! :D xxx

  3. I've wanted to read this book for a while now! I love this post!

  4. I couldn't agree more! I've read the book and loved it!
    Shauna x